One of my favorite writers, Belle recently shared some great lessons that she's learned throughout life in general, I figured I'd share them with you.
1. If he doesn't call, he's not interested. Period.
2. Friends last longer than boyfriends.
3. It's impossible to fill an emotional void with a physical act.
4. Men are insecure too.
5. If he says he's not ready for a relationship, he’s not ready for a relationship.
6. Kings don't always wear crowns.
7. Wanting to have sex with you and wanting to be with you can be mutually exclusive ideas.
8. Wanting you to want him and actually wanting you are can be mutually exclusive ideas.
9. If he has a girlfriend, leave him alone. If he leaves her for you, he'll do the same to you. If he stays with her and deals with you, he's a whore. Either option is bad for you.
10. A beautiful face (or body) does not make a beautiful mind
11. Men don't read minds. If you want something, ask for it.
12. If you wouldn't want your kid to grow up and be just like him, you shouldn't marry him
13. Just because he's a good man does not make him the right man for you
14. Having an SO/ husband does not make you a better or smarter woman. Don't believe the hype.
15. It's okay to be alone. You'll be fine without him. Trust me.
16. Sometimes things just don't work out and it's nobody's fault
17. Put God first, yourself second. NOBODY else always will look out for your best interests.
1. If he doesn't call, he's not interested. Period.
2. Friends last longer than boyfriends.
3. It's impossible to fill an emotional void with a physical act.
4. Men are insecure too.
5. If he says he's not ready for a relationship, he’s not ready for a relationship.
6. Kings don't always wear crowns.
7. Wanting to have sex with you and wanting to be with you can be mutually exclusive ideas.
8. Wanting you to want him and actually wanting you are can be mutually exclusive ideas.
9. If he has a girlfriend, leave him alone. If he leaves her for you, he'll do the same to you. If he stays with her and deals with you, he's a whore. Either option is bad for you.
10. A beautiful face (or body) does not make a beautiful mind
11. Men don't read minds. If you want something, ask for it.
12. If you wouldn't want your kid to grow up and be just like him, you shouldn't marry him
13. Just because he's a good man does not make him the right man for you
14. Having an SO/ husband does not make you a better or smarter woman. Don't believe the hype.
15. It's okay to be alone. You'll be fine without him. Trust me.
16. Sometimes things just don't work out and it's nobody's fault
17. Put God first, yourself second. NOBODY else always will look out for your best interests.
18. You don't always get closure. Make peace with it anyway.
19. You have to grow, but you don't have to change
20. Dysfunctional people love dysfunctionaly (this is probably the most important on this list.)
21. If you're the only person you know that likes him, you're overlooking extraordinary flaws
22. If it sounds like bullshit, it is bullshit. Cut your losses early.
23. Love with your heart, think with your head.
24. Just because you miss him, does not mean you are meant to be with him.
25. You broke up with him for a reason. Sometimes second-time-around love works. 99% of the time, it doesn't.
26. Good guys exist, but perfection does not.
27. Let a man be a man. (Relationships are so much easier if you just let him be)
28. Learn to compromise, but don't compromise yourself.
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