A couple of weeks ago I walked arm and arm through times square with a close friend whose been like a big sister to me over the years. We laughed as we reminicised on old times, high school, our college years, and all the mistakes we made, but learned from. When the topic of our exes arrived, she informed me that she was 100% over him. "Wow," I responded how did that happen...she said the name of her current boyfriend and smiled....he's how it happened.
I've been on and off with my ex for a very long time now and I know its possible, but its hard to imagine myself being totally over him. I can say now that he's more attached to me than I am to him, but I still can't imagine my life without him. He's been there for so long, he's helped me grow, and he's played a huge part in my life, how can you just let that go? "Simple," my friend replied. "The best way to get over one person is to get under another. "
Whoa, although I've dated my fair share of guys when my ex and I were off, none of them have ever been able to be what my ex has been to me. My friend expressed to me that this was because I wouldn't let them be. She said I was so busy holding onto him that I wouldn't open my heart and allow another man to make me happy. Well damn, she was certainly right, I really haven't allowed myself to do that.
I'm not sure why I haven't, but I guess its time that I do.
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