A/B/C

A couple of days ago I sat around drinking wine and watching the election coverage with my friends uptown. Since Obama was losing:( we begin to have a deep conversation about love and relationships. I brought up the point that there is no such thing as a man who can give it to you all. Meaning this man has a real career, you can bring him home to your mama, he's faithful, you can trust him, and the two of you have ALOT of passion when it comes to each other. In my experience I've dealt with three types of guys in life..the A, B, and the C. I know there may be some expceptions....but uh none of them have crossed my path.....yet.

A Guy-This dude looks great on paper, he's polite to you, he respects his mother, he's driven, he's ready to live the good life, with a trophy wife by his side. However, he is extremely predictable and you'll soon find yourself bored. There's just no surprises with the A guy...

B Guy-Now the B guy is mostly the one women "think" are the loves of their lives. You most certainly cannot take them home to your parents, because they never have their ish together. The B Guy is absolutely an emotional rollercoaster, there are usually more bad than good times with him. It usually takes years to get the B guy completely out of your system. He has a passion that other men usually lack..and besides all that he can blow your back out...which makes you come back for more...but in the end you just end up hurt...

C Guy-The C guy is labled as the "nice" guy. He has his life together, you can take him home to your parents, he might even be good in bed...HOWEVER...he's just to damn nice. He will do basically anything you tell him to do without a fight. He has no spine...and you can pretty much walk all over him...you will get bored with this eventually...

Of course the men in the room argued that this was simply not true and it was possible for a man to have a good life, be great in bed, and make you happy all at the same time. Some of the women in the room who were in relationships said it was possible, and others said it wasn't. So what am I supposed to do, settle for an A guy and not be happy? Do I settle for a B guy who will give me lots of passion, great sex,but will hurt me? Or do I choose the C guy who will do whatever I tell him to?

Then again...I could just choose not to settle.